Some people talk about psychic connections, or energetic fields, or fate or destiny... I don't know about all that. But I do know that there is a very real, visceral way that people can connect with one another. Whether it's by a glance, or through conversation, or on a dance floor, we can "feel the vibe" and it's something real. It's hard to put words to, because there are questions to be answered like: why do you feel a vibe from some person, and not another? Where does the vibe come from? Who or what power decides who you will "connect" with and who you won't? Trying to answer these questions leads to conversations about God or about energetic realms, because they're unanswerable questions without going way out there.
The fact is though, that with some people you "feel it" and with others you don't. And that's that. You have to keep looking, keep meeting people, and be OK with duds and hopeful that you'll find somebody that you click with. And with that, perhaps I'm advocating for a liberal modern society, in which we are allowed to meet lots of people, and be free to try our hand at several relationships before we settle into marriage. Sure I am.
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